Maggie (Host): Welcome to the Live Greater podcast series, information
for a Healthier You from the University of Maryland Medical System.
This episode is part of our menopause and perimenopause series focused on education,
empowerment, and personalized care.
I'm your host, Maggie McKay.
Joining us today is Dr.
Carmen Farrier, OB GYN at University of Maryland, St.
Joseph Medical Group to discuss perimenopause.
What now?
Thank you so much for being here, Dr.
Farrier.
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Thank you for having me.
Maggie (Host): So first things first, what is perimenopause and
how is it different from menopause?
Because I have to say, I remember years, decades ago actually, on
Oprah, she had a guest and they said.
Menopause is like 14 years and there's three stages to it.
And I'm like, oh my goodness.
So let's just start with that.
perimenopause.
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
I would say it's kind of like the start of the journey.
Of the retirement of your ovaries, so to speak, during this time period.
Your hormones are fluctuating a lot, and you also notice that your
periods are gonna be really irregular.
So that's the first clue that women are entering perimenopause.
It usually happens like early forties for most women.
Maggie (Host): And how is it different from menopause?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Menopause means that you have not had your period for an entire year.
So perimenopause ends a year after your final menstrual period.
And we have a retrospective diagnosis.
We don't know how long we're gonna make it, so that's why
we count for the full year.
You may make it seven months and your hormones fluctuate and
you start having cycles again.
So menopause is a full year of no bleeding.
Maggie (Host): what are the most common signs of perimenopause and
which ones surprise women the most?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
The most common signs will be the menstrual irregularities where
your periods become unpredictable.
Some women may have had cycles like.
Clockwork every 28 days.
Now all of a sudden it's 30 days, it's 35 days, it's 26 days, God forbid.
And they may also notice that the amount of blood that they're losing is variable.
So a lot of women may notice that sometimes their peers are really
scanty, sometimes they're really heavy.
And so Those are things that are frustrating because you're
trying to plan your life and you're noticing these things.
Women can also have some hot flashes.
That usually happens more so when they are.
Spending getting closer to menopause.
But they may notice those hot flashes, which are things that
they will remember to report.
In most cases, if you're 42 and you're having hot flashes, you'll probably
wanna talk to your provider about it.
Maggie (Host): Why do so many women feel blindsided by perimenopause,
even if they've heard of menopause?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Partially, the providers are at fault for that, and there've been a
lot of stigma over the years about something that's natural for women to
happen, that we do have a set stage for the lifecycle of our ovaries.
And a lot of the times we have not done a good job of explaining this to
women, especially after the Women's Health Initiative study about 2001
where there were no hormonal treatments and pretty much everybody stopped
everything when that study came out.
So we just kind of stopped talking about it before that point in time.
Women just got treated.
They may have been on contraception, and they transitioned right
to hormonal therapy, so they weren't having a lot of symptoms.
Maggie (Host): How early can perimenopause start and when should someone talk
to their doctor instead of brushing symptoms off as stress or aging?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
It can start even in your thirties.
So there are a lot of women.
Who have some of the symptoms, hot flashes, irritability, night sweats,
irregular periods, and they become frustrated by these symptoms and they're
not really sure what's happening.
And we also normalize everything in society.
So women we're kind of taught to tough it out, it's just what happens.
It happens to me.
So you just have to go through things and people don't always realize that there are
treatments out there that we may be able to help alleviate some of your symptoms.
So the early thirties, it is very frustrating for women and it doesn't
mean they're necessarily gonna lose their Fertility in early thirties 'cause
perimenopause can last for some women, two years, for some women over 10 years.
So it's just the fact that your hormones are just going up and down
and you just not feeling like yourself.
Maggie (Host): 10 years.
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Yes, unfortunately, particularly in women of color, they have
longer transition periods.
Maggie (Host): and that's just perimenopause,
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Yes, perimenopause where your hormones are changing.
Menopause is for life.
Post menopause, I should say.
So once we stop having our cycles, we spend the rest of our life in
post menopause, dealing with those consequences of having low estrogen state.
Maggie (Host): So lucky being women.
Just kidding.
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
It is manageable.
There are a lot of things out there we can do about it.
We're not powerless.
Maggie (Host): And like you said earlier, it's so true.
How, like when I was growing up, it was like anything medical
that women go through, it was like, that's just the way it is.
get through it.
And that's how you had to deal with it.
But now there are options today, like you said, for managing, let's just
start with perimenopause symptoms.
What are those options?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
The first thing I would say before I go into full options is be sure that you're
intentional about your appointments.
A lot of the times we as providers, we feel powerless.
Or not useful because our patient's may come in and they come for routine
appointments, but then they have all these other problems that are very
important And we can't take the time to go through them appropriately.
So if you feel like you have concerns about menopause, don't wait till your
routine exam, schedule a separate appointment to do a menopause consult.
Perimenopause, consult, whatever you wanna do it, but schedule a separate
appointment so that we know that you have a serious issue And that we also
have the time to address your issue.
In terms of perimenopause, there are treatments out there.
We try to focus on what the problem is.
So if a woman's having a lot of menstrual irregularities, we'd be
looking at some type of hormonal treatment, whether it is birth control
pills, the patch, progesterone, IUD, if they're having mood issues, we look
at, different type of mood treatments or cognitive therapies to try to
help them with some of those things.
Maggie (Host): Dr.
Farrier, if a listener is thinking, okay, what now?
What are the first one or two steps you recommend that they take?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
When my patient first starts to transition to perimenopause, I kind
of see that as another vital sign that they're getting ready to go
through a transition in their life.
And so I want.
Women to use that time to do a checklist to make sure that
they're on track to be able to have their best postmenopausal life.
So, is my diet good?
Am I exercising appropriately?
Is my bmi, is my weight in order?
is my cholesterol doing well?
Is my blood pressure good?
Because these are things.
That estrogen protects and helps us with, and as we age, we're more likely
to have problems with those things.
So I see it as an opportunity for us to kind of like get our ducks in order.
Maggie (Host): In closing, is there anything else you'd like
women to know about perimenopause?
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Perimenopause is natural.
There's nothing wrong with you.
There are treatments out there that can help you.
You may have to do something.
I know sometimes we feel paralyzed.
That we actually have to take another medication, but if that medication's gonna
get us to the other side, make life more tolerable for us, then don't be afraid.
There's a lot of studies out there with good medications that
are safe and tolerable, so just don't be afraid to talk about it.
You can get something done.
Maggie (Host): Well, thank you so much for sharing your expertise.
This is invaluable information that a lot of times we don't hear about.
You know, like people just don't discuss it, much more now
today, thankfully than years ago.
But still, I think, uh, it's good to have it out in the open like that.
So thank you so much
Carmen L. Farrior, MD:
Thank you.
Maggie (Host): again, that's Dr.
Carmen Farrier.
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